Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Baby Blessing



Tanner was given a special baby blessing at our church on August 7, 2011. Not to be confused with a baptism, the blessing is like a special prayer for Tanner. Since Jeremy holds the priesthood, he was able to give Tanner the blessing. It was such a special day- one that I had been looking forward to for a long time.

We were very blessed to have most of our family spend the weekend of the blessing with us. 
Tanner's Gramz & Grampz

Tanner's Great-Grandma Davdison
 Tanner's Great-Grandpa Davidson 
Tanner's Uncle Matt
Tanner's Nana, Papa and Auntie Desha (This picture makes me laugh because my side of the family is extra crazy about taking pictures of Tanner)
Tanner's Auntie Tauni
 While everyone was here, we all went to the beach! Grandma & Grandpa Davidson were real troopers. I loved visiting with Gpa while I fed Tanner in the shade. 
 Jeremy & Matt
 Desha & me

The BIG DAY!!
 
  The entire gang in front of our town home

The men that participated in the blessing (Matt held the microphone for Jeremy during the blessing) It's awesome that Tanner has so many great guys to look up to. 
My side of the fam

 My sweet son! He was almost 6 weeks old! (5 weeks and 5 days)





Saturday, August 27, 2011

Going Out- Part II

Mommy and Daddy aren’t the only ones who have been out and about. Tanner is getting his fair share of outings, too! We’ve taken him on lots and lots of walks and we’ve been to the beach, restaraunts, stores and even amusement parks. Every trip has been an adventure, some easier and more fun than others. Below are some experiences, among many, that we’ve had with Tanner in public.

Experience: Buca de Peppo We decided to splurge at an expensive restaurant for Jeremy. (This was one day before his class party in LA). I had gone to a restaurant with MomZ the week before, and it was a piece of cake. Well, that wasn’t the case this time. As soon as we were seated, Tanner started fussing. Hungry again! I swear I fed him right before we left, which couldn’t have been more than 30 minutes ago, right? Wrong. I fed him, then got ready, then packed his diaper bag, then loaded the car, then drove to the restaurant, then waited to be seated. So even though it only felt like 30 minutes, it really was 2.5 hours since he last ate.

So there we were at the restaurant trying to order, trying to have adult conversation, and there’s this baby fussing and screaming in our ears! We managed to pacify him until the food came. I got three bites of my dinner and then he lost it. I wanted to nurse him right there, but it seemed weird with the set-up and the chairs. So I decided to feed him in the car and come back as soon as he was satisfied.

Poor Jeremy ended up eating all by himself. I should have known better! Jeremy waited for 35 minutes, then paid the check and came to find us in the car. I wasn’t joking when I asked him, “Is this what our lives have come to?” He assured me that we would get the hang of things soon.


Experience: Universal Studios When the Zavoral family came to visit, they planned a day at Universal Studios. I figured, “Why stay at home all day when my family is in town?” So Tanner and I tagged along. When we were in line for the studio tour (which was awesome), I noticed that we were the only ones with a 5 week old baby. I started to wonder if I was crazy for bringing Tanner there. But then I noticed we were also the only ones with great-grandparents, too. So I just decided if really old people could be there, then really young people could be there too!

The day went better than you’d expect! Probably because of my meticulous planning the night before. I spent almost two hours filling the stroller, diaper bag and adult backpack with all the essentails. I’m very proud to say that it paid off! We had everything we needed. Tanner slept in both the stroller and bjorn most of the day. I visited with the family in the lines and if Tanner couldn’t go on the ride, I just walked through while the others rode. There were times when the entertainment was so loud that I wanted to cry for Tanner’s ear drums. But Tanner only cried when he was hungry. I used a bottle of breast milk for every other feeding so that we didn’t have to stop the group so much. For the other feedings, I figured out how to breastfeed in public really quick! 




 Below: This is what much of the weekend looked like- deciding what to do next.


Experience: Wahoo Taco Explosion- My sister’s flight was delayed, so we had time to eat out at Wahoo Taco’s. Once we got the carseat situated on the table, Tanner started fussing. I pulled him out of the carseat, and was just about to hand him to Desha when a stream of pea-green poop oozed down my arm and dripped onto Desha’s placemat. Ugh! No wonder he was fussy! There was poop smeared all over the carseat and Tanner’s clothes. We booked it to the bathroom. But does this place have a changing table? Noooo. Of course not. So I made a human changing table with the changing mat and Tanner draped over my arms. Desha used about 50 wipes to clean up everything. Another funny thing, I had been carrying around a change of clothes and plastic baggies for explosive situations this whole time, but of course, were either of those in my diaper bag when we needed them? So is life!

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Going Out- Part I

That's right. We up and did it. We left Tanner with a babysitter at 1 month old and went clubbing in LA!
 Well, actually, Jeremy's MBA class had a big party to celebrate finishing their first year of grad school and it just happened to be at a club. The music was terribly loud and we paid over $15 for our lemonade and sprite, but it was still awesome to get away from spit-up and dirty diapers for a few hours. I got to wear a tight shirt, high heels, jewelry and make-up- 4 things I haven't worn in months and months!

Jeremy and I felt pretty cool. Not because we were at a club, but because we managed to go on a real date just 4 weeks after having a baby. This is a big milestone, and I'm glad it didn't take us months or even years (we've heard of it happening!).

We are so lucky to have several great friends who are willing (more like begging) to take turns babysitting Tanner. Our neighbor is one of them, and she said "I can't believe how relaxed you are about leaving your baby with us! When I was a new mom, I could never leave my baby with anyone!"

So one thing I've learned about myself is that I'm perfectly fine with leaving my kid with other people. I'm not entirely sure why. But I think it's because I've been on the other side- the one who babysits. The kids I took care of were always fine without their mom, and I loved those little people as much as I knew how, so it's easier for me to trust that others can do the same for my little guy. Not to mention, it's annoying to babysit a kid that hardly ever leaves his mom's side, so I want to avoid being that mom.

Luckily, clubbing wasn't the only date for us as new parents. Since then, we've gone to the temple, a Broadway show (Mary Poppins- and it was unbelievable!!), and tomorrow we are going to a surprise event for our anniversary. Hard to believe we have been married for 5 years. What an AMAZING life I've had with Jeremy, and it is only getting better!!

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Things I love about you, My Little Tan Man

  • The tiny chuckle you make when you're having a funny dream
  • The way your tongue gets ready to suck right before you latch on
  • How you surprise yourself when you make a huge poop
  • How you earnestly grab my finger when I let you eat it

  • The layers of salty skin under your chin
  • How your fists curl under when we lift you above our heads 

  •  Your yawn

  • Your piglet sounds that you snort when we put you on your tummy 
  • Your drunken face after a good feeding, with smears of milk all over your mouth
  • When you let us pose you for pictures 

  •    How you put up with our crazy games

  • The black hair-patch right above your bum
  • The wonderment in your eyes when we hold you in the shower or bath

  •  The way your arms fold over your chest when you cuddle with us



  • How you can be screaming for food, then as soon as my boob or the bottle is next to your cheek you freeze mid cry and get ready to eat
  • Your sigh of satisfaction
  • The little wrinkles of skin that show up when you stretch your arms

  • How you sleep anytime we take you out of the house

  • Your angry "wah, wah" baby cry. It really sounds like that!
  • The way your pacifier bobs up and down when you suck on it vigorously, and the chomp chomp chomp sounds that accompany
  • The grunts you make when you try to adjust your head on my shoulder
  • Your pouty face- with eyes all crinkled up, and your lips in the biggest rainbow frown I've ever seen!
  • Your bead-tipped toes, those long feet, and the skinny ankles attached to them

  •  And of course, your ever-present furrowed brow, trying to make sense of this crazy world


Monday, July 25, 2011